Semester 2 Assignment 3

In my opinion, it is very important to know yourself in order to be able to do great things and move forward in life. Knowing yourself will allow you to set your own limits, which will bring a lot in the world of work. In today's society, many people pay attention to what others think of them. This state of mind is not the right way to be yourself, and to be happy in life. We must build our lives according to ourselves and not according to others. Even close people like family or friends should not influence their own choices, because certain choices can be decisive for our future life. In the world of work, knowing yourself is an asset, it will allow us to know which field is best for us and it will allow us to know how to manage ourselves. One very important thing also, not to trust what people say, you have to be careful to know your real friends and fake friends. False friends can be a bad influence for yourself and therefore have an influence on our future.

I will start with a quote:
"Mirrors are like consciousness. We see ourselves as we are, and as we are not because whoever sees himself in the depth of the mirror tries to hide his ugliness and arranges it to be more comfortable"
-Miguel Ángel Asturias-
All this can have a positive or negative influence. Imagine, for example, that you are a few kilos overweight and others tell you that you are very well.
It is a simple example of the fact that your perspective is not the same as that of others, and this has a significant impact.
Very often, the image we have of ourselves does not correspond to the image we convey.
Many of us are full of complexes that prevent us from taking advantage of ourselves. All this comes from the fact that we always want to give an image of ourselves that we like.
What we don't know is that people don't see us as we think they do or we want them to see us.
It would be very positive to start interacting with people around you and ask them directly how they see you.
This can help you understand how our point of view is not unique, and even when we try to see ourselves from the outside.
If you do, you will discover things you didn't think about yourself. Everything you are told will help you to form a more realistic picture of what you are projecting towards others.

I think that the eyes of others are far from being important. It is more important to feel good about yourself than to please others. But today we live in a world where everyone wants to please and in the end nobody is themselves. You hide behind someone you're not. It's sad to get to this point. Many people feel bad about themselves after hundreds of criticisms, they end up getting depressed, trying to kill themselves or doing surgery thinking they will please everyone at that moment. It's sad, but it's true. No one assumes who they are after all. You'll always find something you don't like about yourself. We will never be satisfied with what we have and what we are. It is often in adolescence that we start to have doubts about whether we feel good about ourselves, whether we like people, etc.
What people think of us is not important. It shouldn't affect us. The most important thing is what we think of ourselves. People will always find something in us that they don't like. Maybe they'll criticize us out of jealousy. But never listen to people, the most important thing is that you feel good about yourself. As long as we love each other, we know what we're worth, that's the main thing. Many people pay attention to what people think of them. But it shouldn't affect us.

We live in a world where people want to pay more and more attention to how they are for others. People want to please others, they want others to think about the bin of them. That's not life!

The most important thing is to feel good about yourself. You should not give attention to others but take care of yourself first. You have to like yourself and feel good.

It is thanks to this that people will move forward in their lives, being satisfied with how they are and how they act. It is not because of others that you succeed in your life, so don't pay attention to what others think of you.

As long as you're well, that's the most important thing. Don't make yourself sick because people talk about you or think badly of you. Don't worry about them and continue to be the person you are.

Always stay the same person and don't change as you are for others. No one is perfect in this world, everyone has their own vision of things and thinks as they wish.

How others see you

You cannot control who will like you, who will vilify you, who will speak kindly of you, who will judge you, who will love you, who will treat you unfairly, who will support you, who will spread lies about you, or who will be your biggest fan. We literally cannot control how any other person is going to feel, think, or treat us. When we come to recognize that as an actual fact, we can turn our focus to the only thing in this life that we actually can control, and that is how we feel about ourselves. If you you pay attention what people think about you, you won't be happy in your life unfortunetly we are living in a world where people are afraid to acheive their goals because the way people will see them.

My biggest advice to you is that you mustn't pay any attention what negative people think of you or your future plans in your life . Consider that is a part of your journey to acheive your goal. the less you pay attention what people think of you the more you will live fullfy your life . The only way to move forward in your life is to associate with people who are also moving forward and will help you move forward with yours. The problem with negative people is if you hang around with them enough, and listen to them long enough, they start impacting your thinking, and you soon realize that instead of thinking positively you are thinking negatively. They are very stealth at this. Before you know it, you will find it can definitely impact the way that you think and change your belief system when it shouldn’t.

Self-image is really important in our society. Every individual living on this planet has his own tastes, his passions, his preferences. Nobody is pre-determined to become something. Everyone can follow the way that pleases him.

Some people decide to live for the eyes of others. Doing the most possible to please others while forgetting their very person. By dint of wanting to please others, we lose ourselves. We become blindly a puppet who wants to follow the flock.

While others live only for themselves, they follow only their hearts and their dreams. Their life, certainly difficult and full of pitfalls, is however full of happiness, satisfaction and also, which is very important, of self-esteem.

For me, do not worry about people's eyes. You have to believe in yourself and with that you can accomplish everything.